Archive | February 2026

The Kitchen’s Hidden Surprises

Daily writing prompt
Describe the most ambitious DIY project you’ve ever taken on.

Hands down, our most ambitious DIY project was a house that we bought in Michigan in 2012. It was over 6,000 square feet and I kid you not – every single room in this house needed either remodeling, or gutting then remodeling, or finishing what was already started. My husband, Eric, has been a general contractor for over 20 years (doing construction for over 25 years). He is very gifted. When we bought this huge house, we honestly thought, “We can have it remodeled in 6 months.” Oy vey! Not even close to how everything played out; try years of remodeling while living there with a family. Not ideal at all, lol!

Since this house was so massive and the workload was a mountain range, I will focus on the one room that proved the most challenging for me early on in our DIY process. If you’ve read my other blogs on this website, then you may know that the kitchen is a therapy room for me. I LOVE being in the kitchen! The kitchen was one of the rooms in this house that had been started but not completed. It had double ovens in a cabinet, a cook top, granite countertops, two dishwashers, and cherry cabinetry (not all of it was installed when we bought the house and we had to buy more to complete the kitchen). There wasn’t a refrigerator, the flooring was not finished, and the layout of some of the appliances, didn’t have a flow for us. Not a bad start, but it needed to be fully functioning for our family.

When it was time to “finally” start the kitchen remodel, my wonderful husband said that he thought it would take about one and a half weeks. I multiplied that by 2 and thought that my multiplication would “cover” any hidden surprises. Needless to say, we were both wrong; SO wrong!

This kitchen had an additional small sink next to the cooktop, which was next to the double oven cabinet, which was corner adjacent to one of the dishwashers. (If that was confusing, there are pictures at the bottom of the blog.) Eric had to remove the double oven cabinet because the oven doors couldn’t be opened if the dishwasher door was open; it was too congested and was a very poor layout. It turned out to be a HUGE blessing in disguise that he needed to rework the appliance layout, because, when Eric removed the double oven cabinet, it led to a whole lot of surprise discoveries we wouldn’t have known were there had it not been removed.

First, Eric noticed that the drywall behind where the double oven cabinet had been didn’t look right; so, he removed it.  Behind the drywall Eric found a multitude of safety and code violations.  About 12 inches had been cut out from each stud, this was done to run the drain pipe from the small sink and the vent line from the downdraft vent (or pop-up vent) for the cooktop. There was an electrical wire sandwiched between the drywall and the studs. He had to remove the cooktop to be able to fix this. He discovered that there were wires underneath the cooktop that were not properly covered. It was only by the grace of God that a fire never happened when we used the cooktop! The vent also had to come out. When Eric removed them both, he discovered that the wall was not straight and wasn’t properly anchored. (This wall was also part of the stairwell to the basement.) So now, the wall needed to be restructured, too.

Next Eric thought that the drain looked like it had a back pitch to it (the slope was the wrong way), he put a level on it, and it did indeed have a slope – the wrong way, so the drain was not properly draining. When he cut the drain line, there was this overwhelming smell that took over a fair portion of the house. The smell was like sour milk, vomit, and anything else with a strong odor all combined together. Like I said, this happened in Michigan – in January – and I didn’t care, but windows were opened up, the front door was left wide open. We were freezing, but we had to get rid of that nasty smell! We only used the sink for rinsing off the produce, but apparently the previous owners had poured milk down the drain and since the drain line was not installed properly, milk (and whatever else was put down the drain) left residue in the plumbing. It looked like cottage cheese on steroids.

At first, I thought it was a nice idea to have a small sink by the cooktop, but after the drain problem discovery, I decided that I really didn’t need a second sink in the kitchen. (One could say that I was sour to the idea of a second sink in this kitchen.)

There were other “hiccups” we discovered as we continued to cross the finish line of this kitchen remodel, but this blog is definitely the highlight reel from our experience! During that time, I became well acquainted with making many different types of food in the microwave which was set up in the living room during the remodel. When we bought this house, we thought that we would live there for many, many years to come, however, God called us to North Carolina. When we sold the house, it was not 100% finished. Eric estimates it was around 90% completed, including new siding, windows, and roof.

The blessing of a completely remodeled kitchen, was quite a challenging process, but we were so happy after seven very long weeks of testing, to finally be able to declare, “It is finished!”

The before picture of the kitchen that had many issues behind the wall. This picture (and the one below) were taken shortly after we purchased it but hadn’t moved in yet.

Before picture of the other side of the kitchen.

After picture of the wall that had many hidden secrets. Completed with permits and inspections.

After picture of the other side of the kitchen.

Beware of the Praise of Men

The Bible warns us to beware of the praise of men. In Galatians 1:10 the apostle Paul asked, “For am I now seeking the favor of men, or of God? Or am I striving to please men? If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a bondservant of Christ.” (NASB1995) In Proverbs 27:21, it reads, “The crucible is for silver and the furnace for gold, and each is tested by the praise accorded him.” (NASB1995) As extreme heat purifies metals, so also the praise from people is a test for each of us. How are we going to handle it? Will this praise by men influence us? Will we be corrupted by the praise or be humbled and purified by God through it?

Jesus Christ said, “I do not receive glory from men; but I know you, that you do not have the love of God in yourselves. I have come in My Father’s name, and you do not receive Me; if another comes in his own name, you will receive him. How can you believe, when you receive glory from one another and you do not seek the glory that is from the one and only God?” (John 5:41-44 NASB 1995) Here’s one more example, Jesus said, “Beware of practicing your righteousness before men to be noticed by them; otherwise you have no reward with your Father who is in heaven. So when you give to the poor, do not sound a trumpet before you, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, so that they may be honored by men. Truly I say to you, they have their reward in full. But when you give to the poor, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your giving will be in secret; and your Father who sees what is done in secret will reward you. When you pray, you are not to be like the hypocrites; for they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and on the street corners so that they may be seen by men. Truly I say to you, they have their reward in full. But you, when you pray, go into your inner room, close your door and pray to your Father who is in secret, and your Father who sees what is done in secret will reward you. And when you are praying, do not use meaningless repetition as the Gentiles do, for they suppose that they will be heard for their many words. So do not be like them; for your Father knows what you need before you ask Him.” (Matthew 6:1-8 NASB 1995)

The Bible seems to make it quite clear that one needs to be careful with the words our fellow men speak to us. As I prepared for this blog, God brought to mind a passage of Scripture. When you read this passage of Scripture, read it (if you will) through the lens of people that allow the praise of others to speak louder to them than the still small voice of God. In 2 Timothy 4:3-4 it reads, “For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but wanting to have their ears tickled, they will accumulate for themselves teachers in accordance to their own desires, and will turn away their ears from the truth and will turn aside to myths.” The tickling of the ears in this passage can be likened to the praise of men; while the sound doctrine can be likened to what God says about you. One is hearing what we want to hear (tickling), the other is hearing the truth (sound doctrine). Which one do you listen to? Which one carries more weight (sway, or influence) with you or over you?

Let’s not be like those who rebelled against God, those “who refuse(d) to listen to the instruction of the Lord; who say to the seers, ‘You must not see visions’ and to the prophets, ‘You must not prophesy to us what is right, speak to us pleasant words, prophesy illusions.’” (Isaiah 30:9b-10 NASB1995) Let us not desire the praise of any human which is fluid; it ebbs and flows with changing circumstances. But let us desire the words God has already spoken about us in the Holy Scriptures which carry much weight and is unchanging. Such as:

Psalm 139 (select verses- NASB1995)

1-3a) “O Lord, You have searched me and known me. You know when I sit down and when I rise up; You understand my thought from afar. And are intimately acquainted with all my ways.”

13-14a) “For You formed my inward parts; You wove me in my mother’s womb. I will give thanks to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made;”

17-18) “How precious also are Your thoughts to me, O God! How vast is the sum of them! If I should count them, they would outnumber the sand. When I awake, I am still with You.”

23-24) “Search me, O God, and know my heart; try me and know my anxious thoughts; and see if there be any hurtful way in me, and lead me in the everlasting way.”

Words are important, they can build a person up as easily as they can tear a person down. “Death and life are in the power of the tongue…”. (Proverbs 18:21a NASB1995) In my opinion the most important reason words are important is because “He spoke, and it was done; He commanded, and it stood fast” (Psalms 33:9 NASB1995); God said, “Let there be…” and everything came to be (Genesis 1); and “by faith we understand that the worlds were prepared by the word of God…”. (Hebrews 11:3 NASB1995; italics added for emphasis)

A verse to leave you with, the words of Jesus Christ, “for they loved the approval of men rather than the approval of God.” (John 12:43 NASB1995)